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Access Hope's private podcast and get a comprehensive deep-dive into Complex Partner Trauma, Betrayal Violence, and more.

Welcome to The Vault

Access Hope's private podcast and get a comprehensive deep-dive into Complex Partner Trauma, Betrayal Violence, and more.

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Hope Ray on Get Naked Podcast with Dr. Kate Balestrieri

Dr. Kate interviews Hope Ray about betrayal violence.

Interview on Conversations about Sex, Addiction and Relationships with Hope Ray

Host Dan Drake with Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeated fidelity violations, and abusive behavior.

Deconstructing Gaslighting Podcast with Sarah Morales

Hope and Sarah breakdown the roots of misogynistic thinking and how women have internalized many of these beliefs and behaviors, and continue to perpetuate the hatred of womenā€¦ and they donā€™t even realize it.

Sariah Bastian joins Hope on the Women Who Discover Podcast

Sariah has a message of hope for you in the midst of betrayal.

Are therapists missing THIS about infidelity? Safety in your own body after trauma

Lisa Taylor and Hope Ray share concerns about the abuse many partners face who have been betrayed by hidden infidelity. Here's a clip from Episode 8 of the Women Who Discover podcast.

Hope Ray interviewed by Dr. Jessica Lamar from BTRC

Dr. Jessica Lamar from the Bellevue Trauma Recovery Center interviews Hope Ray about betrayal violence. They discuss how infidelity covered up by secrets and lies can be framed as abuse.

Betrayal Violence Informed Organizations are trained to recognize and rehabilitate inequity dynamics caused by infidelity in intimate relationships.