Once upon a really dark time in my own life, after a
Knock-out, drag down fight I threw my wedding ring on the ground and said through my shaking, “I never signed up for this.”
We as partners didn’t sign up for this, did we?
When we said our vows we took them seriously didn't we? We signed up for a lifetime of true partnership and readied ourselves for a happy and healthy adventure.
We knew it wouldn’t always be easy, but we didn’t imagine this.
So, now what? Where do we go from here?
Here’s what I believe.
You can heal and have an abundant life again. The layers of this trauma are heavy and complex but there is a TON you can do to get back to a life that feels worth living. Powerful healing steps are possible right now DESPITE the exhaustion you feel from the pain.
My healing was my magnum opus, the most important work of my life. It led me to freedom I had never known before. I want that for you too.THE STORY WE SHARE
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"Thanks for everything. This may have saved my marriage."
"Thank you, so much, for what you do. Putting in your effort, time and your compassion that you are able to give to others and me. Helping so many women in this area. I felt so comfortable and safe being with you. You care about the women who have gone through betrayal and it really shows."
"It was a very powerful, positive experience that left me feeling very hopeful. I’m looking forward to doing the work to move forward in my life."
I’m Hope Ray.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in sex addiction, trauma and betrayal. For over a decade I have catalogued the stuff that works for my clients and found ways to streamline therapeutic processes to help women and couples move toward healing in less than the prescribed “3-5 years” of therapy.