A woman who has experienced divorce after infidelity betrayal knows a unique form of suffering.
It's like being loaded up with trauma cargo and then pushed out to sea... alone. Even if she was the one to choose divorce, the sense of abandonment is enormous - and it's layered on top of so many betrayals. If you know this kind of pain, then you know.
And you might be feeling held captive by anger and resentment...
Or maybe you're feeling stuck in a spiral of grief about how things went...
Perhaps you can't seem to get your traction and energy back on track...
Or maybe, you are just completely burnt out. And you need support.
You can, and will, reclaim yourself despite years
of history and routine invested with your ex-spouse.
Equally important is the task of understanding the ways you are different now. As you know full well, the impact of betrayal doesn’t disappear along with the relationship. But there is a way to get your head and your heart organized and feeling vibrant, healthy and strong.
In three days together, you and me, we can make the difference for you.
R.A.D.I.A.N.T. intensives offer my signature Complex Partner Trauma model redesigned around the feminine experience of uncoupling after years of betrayal.
Here's how - in our work together we will:
- Identify the Cardinal Wounds that shape the lens through which you are currently viewing yourself, your marriage, your future options
- Draw from old wounds you've successfully healed in order to construct a 3-month Resiliency Template that will turn the tide for you
- Ensure your plan is going to work by weaving in all the relationship roles you have (examples: co-parent, ex-daughter-in-law, single woman and more)
- Make every trigger and painful memory count toward your healing by building skills that balance Wise Femininity (a trifecta of intuition, sensitivity and vulnerability)
- Chart your path away from the Zones of Impact caused by betrayal and determine which burdens can be offloaded NOW
- Nurture a profound connection to your own intuition as a single woman
- Identify what has already healed and bring the "finish line" closer so you can start to thrive instead of it feeling impossibly far off
- Refresh your confidence that you have what you need for whole-hearted healing already inside of you - and get you boosted on a new trajectory
Client Testimonials
“I don't feel like divorce is defining me anymore and I feel like I have a new lease on life."
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"Without this I think I would have really started to waste away. I am in a totally different place. I have a new outlook and I'm pretty damn proud of myself. Thank you for your guidance and for your compassion to help me get to this place I am so thankful for you!"
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"The intensive was the best three days I could've invested in myself and covered more than I ever got to in 2 years of weekly therapy."
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"Truly invaluable. It was unbeleivable, actually. I know what I need to do now. One of the best feelings is knowing that I can do this and that I already am. I felt like I had to eat an elephant before but it's not like that anymore for me, I have done a lot of work to heal my childhood wounds and I learned how to repurpose it for myself, now. I learned I am stronger than I thought."
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"I lost so much even before the divorce and I truly felt like I had to rebuild my life from scratch. You helped me see the true position I was in and it helped me to rely on myself in a way that I never have been able to before. I am stronger and more at peace."
“It was an experience I could not have gotten if I tried to do it with my own therapist -who I really love and have worked with for a long time, because the homework and the structure of the intensive setting allowed me to have more time to focus and be thorough. Hope gave me a structured way to really work through some things she referred to as "open cans of worms" and it felt like huge progress."
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"I feel better, stronger, like my light is returning. I am able to trust myself and I will keep working on that."
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"None of this is fair and Hope gets that. Hope has a way of empowering women to take action for their own good. I was blessed by working with her."
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"When I got home I got rid of some of the things on my list that were holding me back. It felt right and I was ready thanks to your support. It's almost scary to me, or at least it's really different and invigorating, how excited I feel to keep healing and find my voice again. You helped me get there."
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"[My granddaughter] told me that my eyes look "shiny' and it meant so much to me because of how you and I talked about this. I went to Michigan feeling drawn and sad but I came away with a piece of myself back and I see it in myself, too."
Hi, I'm Hope.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), and Certified Hope and Freedom Practitioner (CHFP).
My 3-day Individual Intensives are held in Michigan, USA where I work with one woman at a time. This therapy program is designed to support women in discovering profound healing after years of discovering repeated betrayals and secrets. Since 2012, I have walked alongside many women healing from Complex Partner Trauma as they move forward in - or move on from - their relationships.
I know that when women take an active approach to healing, they discover treasures of wellbeing they didn’t expect. I’ve seen it over and over again in the resilient women I’ve counseled; the fresh life they excavate from the rubble of betrayal.
I believe you can not only heal from his betrayals - you can make discoveries that heal other wounds too, while in this process. Complex Partner Trauma is a corridor; your unplanned opportunity to wrap both arms around the whole person you are and transpose hurt into healing. You can transcend life-long wounds - you can feel awesome, vibrant and free.
With the right preparation, intensives can help you accomplish months of therapy gains.
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GETTING STARTED
After I receive your application we will schedule a phone call to cover your questions and assess if this program is a good fit for your current support needs. If it's not, I will let you know right away and refer you to resources with other providers that may be beneficial for you.
To tailor-design each intensive, I get to know my client ahead of time through several intake forms and assessments that are completed before they travel to Michigan. This kind of prep allows us to dive right in to the pulse-point on our first day together - it sets us up to accomplish a lot in a little time.
It is the joy of my heart to support women in their healing journeys. If you are interested in a 3-Day R.A.D.I.A.N.T. Intensive, complete the application and I will be in touch - I look forward to connecting with you.
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